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What to do on New Years Eve Day with my bickering parents?My parents are "disagreeing" again; which is nothing new. They have been fighting all my life. My dad has thyroid disease and diabetes and he was in a bad accident years ago that caused him to break 9 bones and lose his spleen. The doctors thought he'd never walk again. my mom is on lots of medications, she has a muscle disease (fiber mialaga) , two herniated discs, and she's suffering from depression. Therefore, they are both always in constant pain and miserable. My dad is known to be very verbally abuse, I'm guessing as a result from the way he was raised. I am unaware of the full story on that. But I do know my mom raised herself and when her mother was there, she would beat her and was very physically and verbally abusive to her. Her father was an alcoholic and drug abuser who died 4 years ago from emphysema and had hepatitis B and C. He was also schitzophrenic. So both of my parents are unhealthy and kind of screwed up. I also have been abused physically and verbally by my parents and brother and perhaps this is the aftermath from the way the were raised. Yesterday, my parents were arguing about CARS. my dad wants to get rid of his truck and get a cheap, affordable car that will be less harsh on mileage. My mom said we can't afford a new car. We just bought a brand new 07 ford fusion and I just bought my 03 ford focus under their name as well. My mom and dad always go for a walk together and my mom got sick of arguing with him and she split and went the other way around the block and walked home. My dad, of course, walked home and he LOCKED the door. She came home and noticed the door was LOCKED and she left and went to her friend's house and parked the car at family pizza. Her friend picked her up and shortly afterward, my dad drove by looking for and she came home. My mom tends to make more drama then is really necessary. She told him she's going to work new years eve and day. ie. she didn't need to drive off, she didn't need to say she's going to work. Half of the time; she'll say she's gonna do something and not do it. Now we're arguing because no one can figure out what to do on this holiday. We just need something to keep us busy today, 2maro I go back to work.
sinned
you certainly have a strange family. sounds like your parents are set in their ways and there is little or nothing you can do about it.
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I would say get out the family Bible and pray for your unity and strength for the upcoming year. God will do a better job of running things around there if you just invite him in.
champion of the underdog
Find another place to live. Quick. For your own sanity.
tysgrandma99
its time to move out.and move on with your life,the drama that your under is only stopping your happiness,life is too short,find so Friends,go out...
stressed
I deeply understand your pain,and love for your parents.Is there a favorite place they like to eat at? Or even a board game,or something that can be done as a family?Even just a quiet special lunch together,or rent a funny movie,to watch together.God Bless,and good luck!!!
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